CIRCLES OF CONNECTION
PSYCHOTHERAPY
soul-centered & attachment-based Counseling
for Individuals and Couples
CALIFORNIA • ARIZONA • VERMONT
Welcome, I'm Alexis
Thank you for being here and showing up to your own healing. I honor you. Life generally has a way of bringing us to our knees so that we can ask for help and grow into our fuller and more integrated selves. To me, there is nothing more beautiful and worthwhile in this world than human beings coming together, with all of our messy humanity, to support one another on our journeys. It's confusing being a person! My work lives where the science meets the sacred. I am here because I believe so fully in the healing power of relationship - whether that is with a partner, friend, child, Spirit, plant and animal relatives - this is how we do it. Together.
ONLY ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS VIA TELEHEALTH
Please note I am not conducting in-person therapy at this time.
I'm a deep believer in - and experiencer of - the human being's vast capacity to heal and transform. My work is informed by the fields of interpersonal neurobiology and attachment science which understand that the brilliant survival strategies that got us through what we needed to get through often come at a great cost to experiencing our inherent wholeness. The safety of a good therapy relationship can be an important leg of that journey of reconnection. I believe that as we heal ourselves, one by one, we transform our world. We are more able to turn towards ourselves and others with love and understanding.
Mission
Services &
Areas of Focus
• Individual therapy for adults
• Emotionally-focused Therapy (EFT) for couples
• Therapy for trauma recovery
• Parenting support
• Young adults/College Students
• Spiritual counseling and support
• Somatic psychotherapy
• Attachment-focused EMDR
• Consultation for therapists
Disconnection from your partner can feel excruciating and trigger feelings of hopelessness and despair. Our best efforts at finding safety in moments of insecurity - our learned patterns of behavior - can end up triggering our partner's reactive response and we then become stuck in painful cycles of disconnect. My approach to working with couples is rooted in attachment theory and the understanding that, regardless of the content of the conflict, what keeps us from feeling close and safe has more to do with our underlying attachment needs and our confusion with how to get our needs truly met in our current relationships. EFT (Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy) helps couples to heal these early attachment wounds together, creating a secure bond and sense of refuge in the storm.
Couples
Therapy
© 2026 by Alexis Lowenstein, MFT.